There doesn’t have to be “Mommy Anxiety”
Want to Parent, Not Sure About Being a Mommy writes in to Carolyn Hax feeling “ambivalent about motherhood.” She acknowledges some social pressure suggesting that parenting is “all-consuming and definitive … Continue reading
This is your GOP
It’s been entertaining to witness various conservative and Republican leaders first dismiss Donald Trump, then scramble to compete and finally stumble as if sucker punched by a bully. And while Donald Trump is frequently called a … Continue reading
Voting for the one note candidate
There’s been a great deal of discussion among the chattering class regarding Bernie Sanders being a one note candidate. I’ll admit it’s bothered me as well. As much as he … Continue reading
Bio-Mom withdraws when child seeks relationship with Bio-Dad
Andy in Georgia writes to Dear Abby that he has made contact with his bio-dad. His mother however has responded coldly to this news. Andy reports “After I told her … Continue reading
The anatomy of a joke
I keep hearing that Sir Tim Hunt’s joke was a bumbling attempt at humor or outright sexism. But the more I read the text of his comments and the more I read … Continue reading
Women, humor and the workplace
I’ve heard the complaint before, from a certain type of man, that women have no sense of humor. I usually dismiss these complaints because this type of man is usually an asshole; his … Continue reading
Can we criticize women? – the over-reaction to Tim Hunt
A question I have is this, can women handle criticism? Well, of course many can. But can we talk about those who can’t? Can we acknowledge a pattern, any pattern, … Continue reading
Dear Abby perpetuates male stereotypes
It sounds like the same old story. And maybe it is, for all we know. But, based on what was printed and shared, Dear Abby is guilty, again, of perpetuating … Continue reading
Slut, friend zone and bitch
Let’s just be clear: I am not defending the use of slut, cunt or bitch. For that matter, I am not defending the use of player, prick or tool. But, those two … Continue reading
A View from the Bubble 
Militant loses foster kids… and for good reason.
Let’s take LaVoy Finicum at his word that he and his wife have done a great deal of good working with troubled boys. As someone who has worked with troubled … Continue reading →